What to Say in 5 Minutes at a Speed Dating Event

Five minutes isn’t long, so make it count. Start with a friendly introduction and a warm smile. First impressions are crucial in speed dating.

Ask engaging questions like, “What’s your favorite way to spend a weekend?” Keep the conversation flowing naturally. Avoid yes/no questions that lead to dead ends.

Balance talking and listening. Share something interesting about yourself, but don’t dominate the conversation. A good dialogue feels effortless and balanced.

If the conversation stalls, use humor to lighten the mood. A funny observation about the event or a playful joke keeps things relaxed.

End on a strong note. If you’re interested, express that. Say something like, “I’d love to continue this conversation.” If not, remain polite and friendly.

Confidence is key. Even if you don’t meet the right match, enjoy the experience. Every interaction improves your social skills.

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